“With my phat house and cool car,” my gay buddy said.
“You might be right,” I responded, “But why?”
“Obviously because we’re attracted to rich and successful people.”
“Perhaps, yet, why?” I pushed him deeper.
What REALLY Drives Attraction?
Why does rich and successful attract men and women alike?
Well, first of all, it doesn’t always.
Plenty of rich and successful people are bad at attracting men or women.
But when it does work, why?
“Rich and successful is a criteria, like red paint on a car,” I said to him.
It tells you nothing about why it stimulates our biology.
And when you get to the heart of why it works, to the principles of attracting, you see many ways to create attraction.
The Laws Of Attracting
Rich and successful works because of what it connotes.
“One you might call positive,” I said to him, “It implies you are a person of high status, or high value.”
This is principle number one, the first Law of Attracting in my Meeting Wonder Woman Masterclass.
“Ah, which is why waving around your Ferrari keys fails,” he quickly grokked.
Because as soon as you are broadcasting high status, well, you’re no longer high status.
“And, so what’s the potentially negative reason it attracts?” he asked.
You’re A Beta Provider…
Rich and successful might suggest high status, and perhaps being an alpha male, which is Law of Attracting number two.
But it also makes you the mark.
Men and women target as a provider.
Someone that can support their goals of survival and replication, who can give them the dream life they fail to create on their own.
“So you’re saying rich and successful might not drive attraction, but using me?”
“That’s one way of putting it, or that one form of attraction is people using each other…”
“The rich man using the young model boy or trophy wife for their body, using him as a provider.”
It’s a common and fair trade, attraction by another name.
The Power of Principles
When you understand principles you get to the heart of what matters to mastering anything.
Do you need to know 800 tips to hit a golf ball, or to master the 5 principles that truly matter?
Need to know everything about a car to drive?
When you the know the principles you can drive anything you want…
Here’s Track 4A from the Wonder Woman Masterclass on the Laws of Attracting: