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Perfect 10?

How good are you?

Out of 10 how good would you say you are?

How much of your potential have you unleashed?

Here I’m thinking in terms of your main focus in life or maybe all your life.

In your career or business or life or mind or as a parent or otherwise out of 10 how good are you?

Who cares?

I’d say many people never care.

They don’t have enough reason to care.

It doesn’t matter in their career or business or life they’re operating at a fraction of their potential.

Or even if they feel way less than 10 out of 10.

They’re not like us.

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Locked in

Hi there,

How are you?

What’s happening with you?

I miss you 🙂 I haven’t written much recently and love coming back to it.

Tell me something…

So…

How are you doing?

I’m doing awesome. Lots of good stuff going.

Just loving getting it done and you look up and see half the year has flown by!

Does it feel the same way for you? How is your year? How are things with you?

I’m curious if you’d like to share coz I’d love to hear what’s going on with you?

Because I haven’t written recently I’m out of touch and would love to learn more about you.

Happy stupidly unrealistic new year!

“If I’ve learned anything from you it’s that New Year’s Resolutions are stupid!” my good mate Terry wrote me.

I agree with me 🙂 they can be stupid and also can be stupidly powerful when you’re setting “real” goals.

The difference comes back to this word “Resolution” and your level of resolve.

80% of Resolutions are quit by February 15 when you achieve everything with limitless resolve.

So let them make flakey Resolutions while you live limitless goals.

Limitless goals

If you are certain that you will achieve your goal then it’s never a goal.

That’s where many people are stuck in life avoiding any fear of failure never stretching for any goals.

Goals don’t have to be of the BHAG (big hairy audacious goal) variety but it is a lot more fun this way!

It’s good to be realistic about what’s possible and also good to ask yourself just how good can it get?

Like Jeff Bezos in 1994 watching the internet growing at 2,300% a year he wasn’t certain where it was headed but was convinced to make a bold bet.

Certainly it would have been a stretch goal just to get Amazon started and build a dominant online bookstore but Jeff Bezos had his sights set on a grander vision.

“You’ve got this”

I don’t know what “this” is for you.

But I do know that you’ve got this.

You know how I know?

Because you’ve gotta know that you’ve got this.

You’ve just gotta know.

Gotta know

You’ve just gotta know.

I don’t know how to say it any more directly than you’ve just gotta know that you’ve got this.

Whatever it is that you’re focused on doing.

Whatever it is that you’re looking to achieve.

Whoever it is that you’re dreaming to be.

You’ve just gotta know you are this.

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Take your shot

He missed.

One shot to make history and he missed his shot.

Now in all fairness he didn’t entirely miss as the supersonic 556 round tore through the top of president Trump’s ear and he’ll still go down in history as a terrible murderer.

But all that training and planning and borrowing Dad’s gun and buying the ladder and ammo and walking to the rally and taking his range finder through security and standing around measuring the shot and oh so cunningly outwitting the secret service and climbing up on the roof and crawling across in broad daylight rifle swinging around for everyone to see, all that to miss his shot.

As they say you miss 100% of the shots that you never take and you also miss plenty that you do.

Trump misses

Even Trump has had many misses, this perhaps his gravest.

In business. In life. In his influence. In losing the last election.

But one thing that you always see from this man is he gets back up and takes his shot over and over again.

Some missed shots you never stand back up like the terrible shooter knew the snipers wouldn’t miss.

Yet outside of worst cases nearly always you have the chance to stand again.

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Back yourself in

Hold onto your hat!

We’re already on a wild ride, aren’t we?

How are you doing with all these things going on in the world?

None of us can know where it’s headed but you do know one thing.

The world keeps moving forward and so must you.

You do this best when you back yourself in.

Back yourself

People spend their lives backing others but how many of us are backing ourselves?

It’s like all those people who spend hours a day and decades of their precious life backing a sports and political team but never back themselves in anything.

At the end of our lives we all know the cliche that you regret the things that you never did and you never need wait till the end to begin regretting.

That’s like so many of my friends who have blindly backed president Biden now trying to figure out who exactly they’re backing.

Biden has played an A+ game outwitting them all by backing himself in.

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Happy new best year ever

Hello there,

How are you doing?

I hope that you are doing as good as you can be.

Of course this hasn’t been the best of years in plenty of ways but I hope that this has been the best year it can be for you!?

At the start of this year I wrote about making this your best year ever and I can happily share with you that this has been the best year ever for me 🙂

It’s unfortunately been my second worst year on mission for humanity looking out at this world I love so much that [fill in your best description of what is going on!]

Jacking my back and living in quite some pain with limited mobility for the first half of this year wasn’t the best either.

Yet like from a caterpillar the chrysalis creates something beautifully new the worse can also bring out your best too.

No matter what’s going on, running your own brain you can make the best of every day, every year, if you choose.

Happy new best year ever

One and only

I cracked the code.

It was by far the most important evolution of my life.

But cracking the secret code to how you live your best life isn’t enough.

Just like any type of achieving, knowing the solution is as useless as knowing how to lose weight.

You must be living it.

Best life?

What would you say creates your best life?

Would you say that you are living your best life now?

I don’t necessarily mean right now, although as you keep reading you’ll see this is exactly what I mean, but for now more generally, would you say that you are living the life that you truly want?

Many people I know are because we are all into these topics we’re all doing our best every day for living our best lives.

But, I also know that’s not the norm in our society.

Especially now many people feel stuck in their jobs or businesses or lives or marriages or financial situation or addictions or habits or lack or media or unhappiness or just about every other thing that can trap you in life.

And you know what they all come back to?

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“But how do I decide?”

“Stay the course,” I said to her.

“But which one?” she desperately responded.

“Do I stay in my current job or make a move?”

“YES, exactly,” I replied.

“But, which one?” she repeated.

“Yes, you’ve got it now,” laughingly I said.

Which way?

Can you see what I was doing with her?

We were having a little fun playing with the binary answer that she thought she needed.

Like many of us at different points in our lives she felt at a crossroad.

At these seeming forks in the road we’re often pushed to make a binary, “exclusive or” choice of one thing vs. another, aren’t we?

A problem at these junctures is that it can be very hard to decide between this vs. that, can’t it?

That’s what I was playfully leading her brain through making this transition more fun.

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“Playing to win”

You know the quote that 90% of success is just showing up?

A client jokes that among successful people the number is closer to 100% 🙂

As he sees it, most successful people landed a successful job and then just kept showing up.

It’s a reason why it’s hard for him to find leaders.

“How many are TRULY focused on winning?” he asks.

Winning

He’s like this bold Aussie football coach who has been offending the locals.

In Australia, contrary to what people can think is the culture, you just don’t speak this way.

Even in the winningest world of sports you just kind of show up and play your game and see how you do at the end of the day.

Then you be real humble about the other team and how you gave it your best, and so on.

That’s how this coach has gotten offside with the yahoos.

He keeps talking about winning.

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Woke or awake?

Are you awake or asleep?

On the surface it’s a pretty straightforward question, isn’t it?

That’s because by the traditional definition of these words, it is straightforward.

Being asleep you’re unconscious, generally in bed.

Awake you’re consciously aware.

That’s different to the deeper definitions we’re talking about here.

“Awake?”

You may know that there’s a deep rabbit hole here?

In fact, perhaps this is the deepest rabbit hole that you can ever explore.

If you are on this path of evolving yourself and particularly have explored new-age or Eastern or spiritual or deeper esoteric teachings you might be using this word as we do.

Often you hear people on this path use this in a negative, judgmental way.

Because they are accumulating knowledge and are now more awake to how the human being is truly functioning (e.g. automatically), they label themselves in a more flattering way as having woke or being awake.

Others are labelled often pejoratively as being asleep, or called say “Sheeple.”

I suggest that you never want to judge anyone, especially when you know how easy it is to keep falling asleep.

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Every ever

I stuck this image on my wall and thought I’d share it with you.

It’s a powerful quote from Jeff Bezos that we used in the program on Rocketing To The Top Like Musk and Bezos.

You’ll see what I mean by every ever—

Every interesting thing I’ve ever done, every important thing I’ve ever done, every beneficial thing I’ve ever done, has been through a cascade of experiments and mistakes and failures.

Every?

Ever?

Of course you never want to take these things entirely literally.

But there’s most certainly a powerful signal here, isn’t there?

What might this signal mean to you?

Secret is believing, or not

I have little clue how to achieve my Grandest Vision.

By all rational accounts there’s no way it can be done.

Unlikely I can achieve even a fraction of what I’d like to see in our world.

It’s all good.

I never let that belief stop me.

The best you can do is your best to keep bringing your dream to life.

Your dream?

How are you doing on your goals?

I don’t know if you use my System For Doing What You Want and have established your Grandest Vision?

You might know this “Grandest Vision” is the term that I use in my books and some of my programs, such as this on Rocketing To The Top Like Musk and Bezos.

It’s the best way that I’ve come to define your biggest, most lofty, grandest, but still achievable goal for your life that you are constantly moving towards.

It’s like Elon Musk colonizing Mars.

Or Jeff Bezos once setting out to build The Everything Store.

Lofty, for sure, but obviously doable.

How grand are you dreaming?

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“High Light Real”

So, how was it?

How was your 2022?

Out of 100, how would you say your year has been?

Of course not everything is perfect in our world and in any of our years, but how would you rate it among your best years?

Whether it’s among your best or not, how would it be to have a method to get the best from your year?

And use it to best set yourself up for next year?

Best movie ever

There’s lots of ways that you can best review your year and best prepare yourself for next year.

Over the years we’ve experimented with many methods, and this is the best that we keep returning to.

Ideally, every day you’re already focused on the details of what you’re doing to keep making things the best they can be.

And here we’re focused on doing something simple, fun, and incredibly effective for looking back on the best of your year.

Now, this isn’t to say that you never reflect on things that didn’t go best.

But if you do, you never want to dwell on that stuff, and ideally you want to see how you solved it, or otherwise powered through.

Because the point here isn’t watching every twist and turn.

You’re showing your brain the best of this year and giving it a map for making 2023 your best too.

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Just trying to say

Many of you loved last week’s article on The Simulation.

I love that you love it.

Because I love this topic more than just about everything.

It’s the most important topic in this world to me.

Where I really started all this work 22+ years ago and where it will dead end.

I want to know all, everything.

And I want to keep sharing.

But

I feel that last week I failed in well enough conveying my most important point.

This isn’t about The Simulation at all—

It’s about you and your best life.

What’s happening in your body and brain and what this means for EVERY single moment of your life.

This is the single most important discovery of my decades of work.

Perhaps to some people it sounds pathetic and a waste of your life to never stop going deeper on this subject.

Yet I perceive that nothing is more important to living your best life than your ‘will and skill’ to choose how you think, feel, take action.

It is the master key to living your best life as many seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, years as you can.

Let alone to uplifting all of humanity.

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Musk’s math is misleading but he’s still right

Elon Musk might be the brightest human alive?

Certainly there are people out there who are more book smart.

But who on Earth is capable of dreaming and scheming on his scale and creating it too?

Relative to AI he appears merely human of course, but relative to say the titans who built America I’d say he’s right up there.

He’s a unique thinker with a deep curiosity and formidable intellect.

Still, his math is misleading.

Simulation?

Among Musk’s leading edge thinking is his assertion that we live in a simulation.

Apparently he is so convinced that he’s banned it from further jacuzzi conversation.

Musk rationalizes that there is one in billions of chances that we DO NOT live in a simulation.

Mathematically this means that the probability this reality you are experiencing is “real,” what Musk calls “base reality,” looks something like—

1 / 2,000,000,000 = 0000000001%

Pretty conclusive math, isn’t it?

And for a moment, just think about what this means.

Whereas since birth we’re all taught to take this “real-ity” oh so seriously, Musk sees this more like playing a game.

Still, his math is misleading.

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“Flywheeling” faster and faster

The holidays can feel like crashing through a tape at the end of a marathon.

Especially in these dysfunctional times it’s easy to feel like you’re ready to crash down and pass out.

If you’re feeling that, yearend is the time to cool the jets and recharge.

But if you’re feeling the fire, it’s also your best time to accelerate.

While others are slowing down you can distance yourself and start the new year with incredible velocity.

Especially if the world economy is slowing down.

Speed up your economy.

Economy of motion

A favorite quote I cite all the time is from famed basketball coach, John Wooden—

“Never mistake activity for achievement.”

This is a mistake that so many of us “busy-ness” professionals make all day every day, decade after decade.

Hours a day consuming media.

Frenetically running around doing things.

Having “great meetings.”

Feeling productive.

But with way too little production.

That’s a perfect method for burning out.

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“Thank Full”

I wish I had this human tech decades ago.

It would have made my life experience so much better.

In so many ways I’ve lived such a blessed life, and we all have so much to be thankful for, but there were plenty of years where it didn’t feel enough this way.

All those years I was ferreting away thinking that this or that needed to change so you can feel how you want.

Even studying the best teachings was never enough until I built the tools for actually getting yourself thinking and feeling your best, at will.

Irrespective of conditions

A teaching that greatly impacted me is the notion of happiness irrespective of conditions.

Back when I began reading about it some 20+ years ago when I started going deep into the mind, it resonated powerfully.

Because before this my life was about “getting there.”

What I now refer to as the Getting There Program, that’s the thing in our brains that has you believing this FALSE cause and effect—

You must first get what you want to feel how you want.

There are good reasons why the brain is set up this way—namely, survival—and also why our society is set up this way—namely, consumption and control—but this keeps many people thinking and feeling worse than they could.

And it’s also simple, factual, and immediately provable that no matter what is happening or not happening in your life, you choose how you think and feel.

While this fact is too much of a stretch for many people, it’s also what Austrian psychiatrist Viktor Frankl concluded in the worst hell of Nazi concentration camps in World War II.

As he wrote, “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”

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Why this matters so much

Have you wondered why someone with so little can be so happy?

While someone with so much can feel so poor?

Why one person can be content with what they have?

While many others achieving more, more, more will never be fulfilled?

What’s going on here?

Two lives

It might be obvious to you.

But it wasn’t always obvious to me and it’s not always obvious in our society and in our own brain.

The life that you see outside of you is ENTIRELY different to what you experience inside.

While you expect that a “better” life out there causes you to feel better inside, ultimately they are independent variables.

Hence why someone can have a heavenly life but be living an internal hell, and vice-versa.

They might as well be two different lives.

It’s like dreaming at night.

What is happening outside of your sleeping body is ENTIRELY different to what you are experiencing inside.

In our school of transformation, RST, we distinguish these as your External Life and your Internal Life Experience.

So even if a person has a fabulous External Life, like Kanye West they can have a terribly sad Internal Life Experience.

This is the cause of ALL problems in our world.

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