I had a call with someone who’s been reading these articles for years.
She said, “I really love what you’re doing on Upgrade YOU.”
And then it came…
“But, I’m having some trouble putting it to work.”
For a few minutes we went around in circles talking about her upgrade.
And then I saw…
It’s my fault
I see it now.
I’ve been TRYING to give you the solutions.
Not the usual airy fairy stuff that people tend to talk about on these topics.
The actual solutions I’ve built for myself over 21 years.
And what I actually do to drive results with clients.
But it FAILS.
From calls like this I’ve seen I’m failing to convey it in a way that best serves you.
Where we get stuck on goals
Has NOTHING to do with goals.
And everything to do with how you get yourself focused on driving them.
This demands, as we hit in Upgrade YOU, aligning your goals, mind, actions.
I’ve tried to lay this out for you, but as I’ve heard on calls like this, it’s not good enough.
It’s too nuanced.
She’d worked through the videos.
Had laid out many of the schedules in her workbook.
But still something needed to be clearly lined up in her mind.
That’s where she was stuck
Using this video she’d navigated the question that was so hard for me when I started—
What do you want?
This had also reduced her anxiety by helping her focus on just the one next step.
She had a real strong why.
Which in fact, was part of her problem.
Her why is so big.
So important in her life.
That it had been spinning her brain into an anxiety-overwhelm-stuck loop.
Taking action mattered so much that her brain was fixated on getting it wrong.
Which made it impossibly hard for her to WILL herself to take the actions to get it right!
“You’re a mechanic…”
She said to me.
“But, please keep in mind I’m not!”
She went on to say that she couldn’t fully do the things I was laying out.
That what to me was just about lining up your goals, mind and actions.
To her was like cracking open an engine figuring out how she gets it to drive.
But, she doesn’t need to figure that out.
She has zero interest in being her own mechanic.
She’s merely looking for someone to help her get driving.
A way to drive it home!
Many of you have told me how much benefit you’ve gotten from Upgrade YOU.
Yet I also know some of you who’ve been watching the videos and doing the work are a little stuck getting it working for you.
So as we finish Upgrade YOU, I’d like to offer you a quick, free call with me.
The purpose is to connect any dots that you might feel are missing.
And to get you ROARING towards crushing your goals!
I’ll only be doing these calls through the end of the month, and must limit our time to 30 minutes.
But the intent is to jam-pack our call with as much value as I can deliver you.
So you can take what I’ve been laying out in Upgrade YOU and REALLY get it working for you!
Just hit reply if you want to jump on a call and we’ll get it scheduled up with you.