Have you wondered why someone can have so much and still feel lack?
Why an attractive man or woman can feel ugly?
A rich person can feel financially insecure?
Someone who’s achieved enormously can fail to feel like they’ve “made it?”
I’m betting like me you know plenty of these people.
Maybe you are one of them?
I used to be.
What’s going on here?
You know we have that phrase of “inner thoughts.”
There’s nothing “inner” about it.
That’s who you are!
It’s your ENTIRE experience of life.
You know that person on the outside?
That’s who you choose to be.
I don’t have to point out to you that most of your life…
In fact, perhaps nearly all of your life, who you’re being outside can be different to inside.
The person you’re “playing” might not be how you feel.
Things that you say to people are edited.
You’re rarely, basically never, sharing your inner thoughts.
But package them in a way that you’re comfortable saying and others are comfortable hearing.
This is the stage!
The one that Shakespeare wrote about—
All the world’s a stage, And all the men and women merely players; They have their exits and their entrances; And one man in his time plays many parts.
The one we’re all so familiar with.
Playing these different parts in our lives on the outside, while often thinking and feeling different inside.
See, and here’s the KEY to this topic—
When we’re feeling lack or a sense that something is missing inside…
We’ve been trained to BELIEVE that something needs to change outside.
So the attractive man or woman who lacks that feeling gets plastic surgery.
The rich and successful person who still feels insecure keeps going after more, more, more, more, more…
But no matter what they do, achieve, become…
This will NEVER change the inside
I’m sorry to say.
It simply does NOT matter.
It’s ENTIRELY irrelevant to your internal wiring.
You never have to take my word for it.
Just look at your own experience in life.
Look at the people around you and see which ones are thinking and feeling how they want.
Or do NEARLY ALL still think something must first change in their life or the world around them?
Consider the people you know who have achieved tremendous success but still feel something is missing.
We say, they need to be grateful, or, if I had all that, then I would feel different.
Yet in your own life you can look back and see the many things that you’ve achieved only to quickly revert to feeling much the same.
Still that brain thinks…
Of all the things it must change on the outside to feel different inside.
Sadly, the lives of many are lived this way.
Inside feeling a sense of lack.
Projecting someone else outside.
Ferreting away trying to achieve or change this or that, hoping to think and feel how they want.
And then you see people with basically nothing.
What’s going on here?
This was to me the greatest MYSTERY of life.
A decade ago this became my focus
As I’ve written about extensively, it was when I was doing what I want.
After some 11 years focused on my question—What do you want?—I was “finally” doing it.
I had it figured out.
I’d solved the hardest question I knew back then and built my 5 step system for doing what you want.
Yet living the most amazing life I could imagine…
I felt like crap.
This became my focus because it gave me a much more important “problem” to solve.
But, moreso, OPPORTUNITY to unlock!
Before this I perceived that when I was doing what I want I would feel amazing.
Now I feel more amazing than I knew was possible back then.
Not because I do what I want.
Because using the 3 step method I developed for building your limitless mind, I’ve trained myself to think and feel how I want!
I share this with you today because…
This is what I MOST want for you.
And ALL of humanity.
Look at the world around us and you see why this matters so much.
The limitless dysfunction you see outside is a reflection of how people are thinking and feeling inside.
No matter what we change in our world…
Nothing will change UNTIL we change who we are being inside.
As you see through history, we become more technologically advanced, yet we’re still the same animals fighting over dirt.
This is the greatest threat and opportunity for our species.
And it’s a reason you’ll see these letters to you changing.
Less talk, more change
I’ve come to see that writing, talking, videos, long articles…
Is not as effective as I want to be.
In going for what you truly want.
For thinking and feeling how you want.
To be of greatest service to you and humanity I must ACTUALLY help people change.
This I’ve come to see demands keeping these letters more fundamental and actionable.
And to keep looking for ways for us to do more stuff together!
btw, if you want to REALLY go after this topic of thinking and feeling how you want, you might want to download my free book with my 3 step system for Building Your Limitless Mind.